Saturday, December 27, 2008

Christmas 2008


Christmas 2008 started out with me just about having a nervous breakdown. We lost power at 3:45pm Christmas Eve! We had no idea how long it would be out so I started frantically packing the suitcase to take to Grandma's the next day while I still had a tiny bit of light, not knowing whether we were going to have to pack up all of Christmas to take to Grandma's that night also. THANKFULLY the power was only out for an hour but it sure was not the way I wanted to start our Christmas festivities. Since we had no power, we got a late start on our Christmas program that evening. Darcy was in no mood to play baby Jesus laying quietly in a manger, or laundry basket in her case. The other kids weren't real thrilled with their parts either. We got it all on video and I'm sure we will watch it someday and laugh. Not yet though! Mason made sure we left chocolate milk and cookies out for Santa. I made some low-fat spicy-oatmeal-cranberry-chocolate chip cookies that were pretty disgusting but the big guy must have liked them since there were only crumbs left on the napkin in the morning.


Mason woke up at 6am but wasn't very interested in Christmas. He wanted his chocolate milk and to watch a show. I don't think he gets what Christmas is yet! Drew was up about 15 minutes later and then we got started on the gifts. All Drew wanted for Christmas was a Spin Art. And not the Crayola Color Explosion, the old school cheap-o kind. Santa searched far and wide but was finally able to deliver. I need to find refills already! Mason got a train set that he has been playing with nonstop too. Darcy really couldn't have cared less about it all but she got a Curious George Jack-in-the-box that Mason has pretty much adopted as his own. We tried to be a bit more frugal this Christmas with all the economic uncertainty going around, but the kids seemed to be happy with what they received so it turned out to be a good Christmas.


Here we are at my parent's house. We headed south on Christmas morning to spend time with my side of the family. It started to dump snow at 10am so we threw what we had left to pack in the car and headed out so we were sure to get out of our neighborhood. Once we got to highway 30 it was smooth sailing for the most part, but our neighborhood was a mess leaving, and also when we got home on the evening of the 26th. The ruts were so deep and iced over that we got stuck 3 feet from our driveway. Paul had to dig a path through the ice for the car to turn because we could not get through. ARGH!!!!!!! But I digress. . .We had a yummy Christmas dinner and gift exchange with my family and then a night of games and visiting. We stayed the night at my parent's and I got no sleep because each kid took it in turn to screech or cry or sit straight up out of a sound sleep and start talking. Put us all in one room and chaos reigns!


This is kind of funny in that I requested that there not be any computer gaming by the big boys at the Christmas gathering because it turns in to too much of a production and not a lot of visiting gets done, just shooting. But I guess the kids didn't get the same instructions because all the cousins showed up with their little individual hand held games! They all got along great, probably because all their heads were stuck in their own games. Nice family togetherness.


Grandma and Grandpa on the morning of the 26th. Dad makes buttermilk pancakes that his dad taught him how to make and they are the best. "The greatest pancakes in the world," according to Drew. And that is saying a lot since Drew is the pickiest eater I have ever met, when she decides to eat that is. She barely eats anything anyway, but put her in a room full of people and she wont eat a bite. But she did clean her plate of pancakes and layrup (sp), a whipped cream, sugar, and vanilla concoction that has been a staple on my family's breakfast table for generations. Man that stuff is good, and totally good for you too!


On the afternoon of the 26th we spent time with Paul's family and opened even more gifts and ate even more good food! Its nice to have both sides of the family all in one town, but it is also dificult at times to spen time with both sides and feel like enough visiting was done. The annual ornament from Grandma was in honor of Darcy's birth this year. They are beautiful hand carved ornaments of the nativity scene, made of olive wood in Bethlehem. Thanks grandma!


When we got home at 10:30pm on the 26th Paul busted out the fire pit my parents gave us for Christmas. I don't know if he had some sort of breakdown and thought he was back in the warm August evening, camping at the coast, or if he truly enjoys sitting outside in 35 degree weather with shorts and tennis shoes on, watching a fire burn. Maybe he was dreaming of the green grass we encountered as we headed south of Salem. I was so excited when I saw it again I told Paul I wanted to strip down to my skivies and romp around in the beautiful green grass! For some reason he didn't stop the car to let me.


Our final tally on Christmas Eve was 16 inches of standing snow in our back yard. If I never see a snowflake again it will be too soon. There is a reason I live in western Oregon, I love the rain, not the snow. Salvation came for me today when a snow plow actually plowed our street. I was so excited I wanted to run outside and clap and offer the driver some hot chocolate! After 14 days of snow on the road, the city finally felt it was our turn to have our road plowed. I guess I should be thankful it happened at all!

Wednesday, December 17, 2008

Round Two!








This "winter" we have been hit hard with the freezing cold and the snow. Today was the second snow fall in 4 days! That is crazy for this part of the country. I seem to remember hearing the prediction for this winter was MAYBE one snow event on the valley floor. HA! It isn't even winter yet and they are predicting a few more snowy days up till Christmas Eve! Yikes! I am fighting a severe case of cabin fever! I need to get out of this house but I really don't want to take my kids out on the slippery roads just so I can assure myself that there are still people alive out there besides my family. Today was great snow for building snowmen. I put Drew to the task of rolling a head for our snowman and she ended up with a ball larger than the base I had made! Paul decided to see just how big he could make it so we ended up with a gargantuan snowman who towers over our 6 foot tall fence! I fear we will have a snowbuddy in our back yard for months to come. That guy will never melt!

Sunday, December 14, 2008

Happy Anniversary!

6 years ago today Paul and I were married in the Portland Oregon Temple. After a 10 month courtship, we tied the knot. To this day Paul claims he was duped into marrying me by our Bishop who supposedly told him I had a bunch of money! HA! But I always remind him that he drove himself to the Temple that fateful Saturday morning of his own free will so he's the one to blame. He could have kept on heading north on I5 if he wanted to but he chose to marry me. What a guy! This first picture is somewhat of an engagement picture. Paul took me on a motorcycle ride into the hills of Corvallis, OR and proposed to me in a ditch in some stranger's driveway. We had a gorgeous view of the city lights and the star filled sky. It was a perfect proposal! The motorcycle played a large role in our engagement because his purchase of it is what finally broke my silence on our plans for the future. I fugured if he was willing to spend money on a motorcycle he wasn't planning financially for a future with me. So thanks to the motorcycle, communication lines opened and we decided to get married.
Aren't we babies!? Ah, fresh newlyweds, shiny in love, throwing a reception in the gym of the local Mormon church. Its free, right? I threatened Paul with no honeymoon if he shoved cake in my face. I just don't find it funny and he luckily agreed.

Here we are on our Honeymoon in New Orleans. We are on a riverboat on the Mississippi River. Very cool. N'awlins is a crazy town! I'm glad I visited it once but that is probably one place I will never visit again.
As I was thinking over the last , or first, six years of our marriage, I came up with TONS of some pretty major events: Road trips to Alaska, Michigan, Niagara Falls, Colorado, Maine, Boston, New York City, Washington, D.C., and everywhere in between! The passing of my wonderful Father-in-Law the week before my son was born, the birth of 3(!) kids, the passing of 3 of my grandparents, buying a home for the first time, Paul graduating from college and getting a great job at Intel, the marriages of siblings and births of nieces and nephews, health scares from various family members, and the ups and downs of everyday life. These have been 6 years of great times and some pretty sad times, but over all I have had a great and truly blessed life since I decided to drop my stubborness and agree to marry my best friend. Thanks Paul for loving me, for standing by me, for accepting me, for calming me down more times than I can count, and for being the great daddy you are to our 3 babies. I love you TONS and look forward to the next 6 years and beyond!


Tuesday, December 9, 2008

What's That Smell?

These pictures are pretty gross, I apologize, but this had to be documented! This afternoon I was making lunch and I caught a whiff of Darcy's nasty prune juice poop. The poop Drew thinks smells good, "like fruit snacks!" YUCK! I looked over at Darcy in her play thing and I see a puddle of poop at the bottom and her little feet smearing it around. YUCK! Some of you know that Darcy has been severely constipated since before Thanksgiving since I gave her bananas without thinking about what they might do to her poor little body. They stopped her up good! I have been forcing prunes and prune juice down her every chance I could get for days now, and it looks like it finally all caught up to her! These pictures do not even tell half the story. Unfortunately I was in poop up to my armpits and couldn't take more pictures! She was covered in the stuff, from her neck to her toes, poor baby! It was all I could do not to add my vomit to the mess as I cleaned her up. This was the biggest blow out I've had to deal with as a mommy. Hopefully I will never see one of this magnitude again! I am happy to say Darcy is probably cleaned out now and much more comfortable. I think its time to lay off the prunes!


Monday, December 8, 2008

You think MY tree looks big?




Paul has decided to be very generous and let me post the picture of the Christmas tree his family put up the first Christmas we were married. We all went out together and Paul and I picked out a nice, small, noble fir, but his parents and brother picked out a full grown tree! They practically needed to hire a logger to fall this puppy! As you can see, hopefully, by the picture, in order to get it in the house and upright, they had to cut the bottom AND top off the tree so what you see is just a solid wall of square tree! This is one of my favorite Christmas memories. Not necessarily one of my favorite trees, but the memory always makes me laugh. Paul is lucky I still decided to marry him after I saw what my future in-laws were capable of! I would just like to add that I have the best in-laws in the world. I am so very lucky!

Thursday, December 4, 2008

Reading List

I picked up this list from my library when I was a firefighter and I had a lot of down time sitting in my fire truck waiting for a fire to spark! There are at least 150 classic literature books listed here and I only have 6 left I think. They are proving difficult to find but I am determined to finish this list. There are some great books here, and some not-so-great but are must-reads anyway. I'm referring to Hemmingway, I am not a fan of his. Have fun reading and expanding your literary mind! I have put an asterisk next to the books I really enjoyed.

Adams - Watership Down
Adamson - Born Free
Alcott - Little Women
Anderson - Winesburg, Ohio
Austen - Emma
Austen - Pride and Prejudice *
Baldwin - Go Tell It On The Mountain
The Bible
Boulle - The Bridge Over the River Kwai *
Bradbury - Fahrenheit 451
Bradbury - The Martian Chronicles
Bronte - Jane Eyre
Bronte - Wuthering Heights
Buck - The Good Earth
Bunyan - The Pilgrim’s Progress
Burgess - A Clockwork Orange
Camus - The Plague
Camus - The Stranger
Carroll - Alice’s Adventures in Wonderland
Cather - Death Comes For the Archbishop
Cather - My Antonia
Cervantes - Don Quixote
Chaucer - The Canterbury Tales *
Clarke - 2001; A Space Odyssey
Conrad - Heart of Darkness
Conrad - Lord Jim
Cooper - The Last of the Mohicans
Crane - The Red Badge of Courage
Dana - Two Years Before the Mast
Defoe - Robinson Crusoe
Dickens - A Christmas Carol
Dickens - David Copperfield
Dickens - Great Expectations *
Dickens - Oliver Twist
Dickens - A Tale of Two Cities
Dostoyevsky - The Brothers Karamazov
Dostoyevsky - Crime and Punishment
Doyle - Sherlock Holmes (Several Titles)
Dreiser - Sister Carrie
Drury - Advise and Consent
Du Marier - Rebecca *
Dumas - The Count of Monte Cristo *
Dumas - The Man in the Iron Mask
Dumas - The Three Musketeers
Eliot - The Mill on the Floss
Eliot - Silas Marner *
Faulkner - The Sound and the Fury
Ferber - Cimarron
Fielding: Tom Jones
Fitzgerald - The Great Gatsby
Flaubert - Madame Bovary
Forbes - Johnny Tremain
Forsyth - The Day of the Jackal
Gilbreth - Cheaper by the Dozen
Golding - Lord of the Flies *
Greenberg - I Never Promised You a Rose Garden
Grey - Riders of the Purple Sage
Griffin - Black Like Me
Hardy - The Mayor of Casterbridge
Hardy - The Return of the Native
Hardy - Tess of the D’Ubervilles *
Hawthorne - The House of the Seven Gables
Hawthorne - The Scarlet Letter
Heller - Catch-22
Hemingway - A Farewell to Arms
Hemingway - For Whom the Bell Tolls
Hemingway - The Old Man and the Sea
Hemingway - The Sun Also Rises
Herbert - Dune
Herriot - All Things Bright and Beautiful
Hersey - Hiroshima
Hesse - Siddhartha
Hilton - Lost Horizon
Homer - The Illiad
Homer - The Odyssey
Hudson - Green Mansions
Hugo - The Hunchback of Notre Dame
Hugo - Les Miserables *
Huxley - Brave New World
James - The Turn of the Screw
Joyce - Portrait of the Artist as a Young Man
Kafka - The Metamorphosis
Keyes - Flowers for Algernon
Kesey - One Flew Over the Cuckoo’s Nest
Kipling - The Jungle Book
Knowles - A Separate Peace
Lawrence - Sons and Lovers
Lee - To Kill a Mockingbird *
Lewis - Arrowsmith
Lewis - Babbitt
Lewis - Elmer Gantry
Lewis - Main Street
London - The Call of the Wild
Malory - King Arthur (Several Titles) *
Maugham - Of Human Bondage
McCullers - The Heart is a Lonely Hunter
Melville - Billy Budd
Melville - Moby Dick
Mitchell - Gone With the Wind ******
Nordhoff - Mutiny on the Bounty *
Orczy - The Scarlet Pimpernel
Orwell - 1984
Pasternak - Doctor Zhivago
Paton - Cry, The Beloved Country
Plath - The Bell Jar
Rawling - The Yearling
Remarque - All Quiet on the Western Front
Roberts - The Northwest Passage *
Rolvaag - Giants in the Earth
Rostand - Cyrano De Bergerac
Salinger - The Catcher in the Rye *
Saroyan - The Human Comedy
Scott - Ivanhoe
Shelley - Frankenstein
Shute - On the Beach *
Sinclair - The Jungle
Solzhenitsyn - A Day in the Life of Ivan Denisovich
Spark - The Prime of Miss Jean Brodie
Steinbeck - The Grapes of Wrath
Steinbeck - Of Mice and Men
Steinbeck - The Pearl
Steinbeck - The Red Pony
Stevenson - Dr Jekyll and Mr Hyde
Stevenson - Kidnapped
Stevenson - Treasure Island
Stoker - Dracula *
Stowe - Uncle Tom’s Cabin
Swift - Gulliver’s Travels
Thackery - Vanity Fair
Tolkien - The Lord of the Rings Trilogy *
Tolstoy - War and Peace *
Tolstoy - Anna Karenina *
Turgenev - Fathers and Sons
Twain - The Adventures of Huckleberry Finn
Twain - The Adventures of Tom Sawyer
Twain - A Connecticut Yankee in King Arthur’s Court
Twain - Life on the Mississippi
Verne - Around the World in 80 Days
Virgil - The Aeneid
Voltaire - Candide
Vonnegut - Slaughterhouse-Five
Walker - The Color Purple
Warren - All the King’s Men
Wells - The Invisible Man
Wells - The Time Machine
Wells - The War of the Worlds
Wharton - Ethan Frome
White - The Once and Future King
Wilde - The Picture of Dorian Gray
Wilder - The Bridge of San Luis Rey
Williams - The Glass Menagerie
Wister - The Virginian
Wolfe - Look Homeward Angel
Wouk - The Caine Mutiny
Wright - Native son

Sunday, November 30, 2008

Whirlwind Weekend

As I said in my previous post, we spent Wednesday, Thursday, and Friday with Paul's family. We got home Friday evening and took down all the Thanksgiving decorations and started to put up some Christmas ones. Saturday morning we were up and out on the search for the perfect Christmas tree. We found a great place out in Goble that has u-cut trees, and we can get any sized noble fir for $20. That's good because we like them big! We walked around in the mist till we all settled on one, and since it was so big we had to have the guy working there cut it down with his chain saw. Then we borrowed the muscles of a couple other guys to get the tree on top of the car. Once home, Paul had the bright idea of hosing the tree off to get rid of the mud and dead needles. Worked great. We have a nice clean tree! My ornaments are just a mix with no real theme. I have a few Scarlett O'Hara keepsake ornaments but I think the rest have been given to us over the years. I put tinsel on my tree because it reminds me of our trees while I was growing up. I don't know that I have ever seen anyone else put it on their's. Is it a dying art form? Oh well, I like it.









Once we had our tree up and the lights on it, the OSU-U of O Civil War football game started. I am sorry to report that this tree trimming experience will probably be one of those that scar my children for life. They will always have memories of what a terrible time we had while mom and dad were screaming and yelling at their losing football team, instead of enjoying the spirit of Christmas and decorating the tree as a family. The tree was eventually finished, as were the Beavers' hopes of making it to the Rose Bowl, and apologies were tossed around. I know its just a game, but it wasn't just a game. I have sat through soooo many sopping wet Oregon State football games where we got our heads handed to us, and finally this year it looked like you could actually admit to being a fan. Guess not. They decided to throw away an awesome season to the Ducks, of all teams, and ruin their chance at the Rose Bowl. I am still disgusted and feel like wallowing a bit longer before I let it go!
Today seemed to be just as busy, getting things back in order before another hectic week starts. December's calendar is filling up fast and I don't foresee a lot of down time. January can't get here soon enough!